Psychologická poradna pro snažící se, těhotné i maminky
Mgr. Lucie Machová
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18.12.24 15:49
český web, české diskusní forum, aspoň si to hoď to překladače, hodiny angličtiny obvykle bereme jinde…
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18.12.24 15:55
Náhodou, tady by mě to aspoň donutilo se na tu angličtinu občas podívat 
Ale zas tak dobrá, abych vyšvihla odpověď, nejsem. Pokud by ji sem někdo dal, ráda si počtu.
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18.12.24 15:57
@Anonymní píše: Více
Get your priorities straight!
What about some lesbifan? 
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18.12.24 16:07
I am writing in English because I want my man to see both the question and the answers but feel free to answer in Czech.
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18.12.24 16:10
@Anonymní píše: Více
Who's your man? Your ex-husband, your current bf, some unknown badboy? A proč píšeš v angličtině, když umíš psát česky? 
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18.12.24 16:11
Pokud jsem to dobře pochopila, bydlí u vás ex když má být s dětma. Jako upřímně, mě by to taky vadilo, co kdyby u tebe doma byla jeho ex? Je jeho věc jak si poradí a jak to udělá aby viděl děti. Nechat mu barák mi přijde jako narušení soukromí tvého manžela.
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18.12.24 16:20
I mean I would not like it either that my partner´s ex spends time in our house. But I get the point when it is doesn´t make sense to book a hotel.
I would try to keep it at minimum. The kids would travel to their dad instead (just minimalize the activities for these weekends or try to do the activities in their dad ´s place..). Maybe once every 6 months is okay but otherwise - kids go to their dad ´s place.
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18.12.24 16:23
I don’t understand why staying at a hotel would shorten his time with the kids. Your ex-husband should go to the hotel to sleep, not the kids with him. He can come and go from the hotel whenever he wants. I understand that he should spend the day with the kids at your place, but he doesn’t need to sleep at your house. Also, if the kids are already older, they could adapt their schedule too, knowing their dad is coming to visit.
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18.12.24 16:28
Why he are forced go out? I would stay home even if your ex is there. Why should the ex stay there alone with the children? i don't understand
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18.12.24 16:29
This year he has been here twice or three times. otherwise the kids themselves would have to travel hundreds of kilometres, more than a thousand there and back, and I would have to drive them. we do it regularly during school holidays. but we are not able to do it over weekends.
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18.12.24 16:31
I don't think we should spend the weekends all together - both my men and me and all the kids. also if ex sleeps at a hotel, the kids would stay at home alone.
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Question primarily to men.
I am living with my teenage kids and my new man of 5 years with whom we have a baby. My previous marriage ended some ten years ago and since that time the older kids' father comes over from time to time to see them and I let him stay in my house because he travels hundreds of kilometres and stays typically for two nights or even one only.
This year my ex was at my house twice or three times for a weekend and I usually spend that time somewhere else, typically on a trip with my man or at his place.
I see it as the right thing to allow my ex spend these short times at my house because otherwise the kids would only be able to spend time with him during school holidays. A hotel for ex would reduce his time with the kids even further and it would make no sense for him to come over. The kids have many weekend activities so they need and want to stay/sleep at home.
At the same time I acknowledge my current man's feelings and leave the house when ex arrives (typically in the morning or during the day after he arrives in the middle of the night).
My now man sees it as a reason to break up with me because he is forced to leave the house so that my ex can sleep over.
I am an ordinary pro-family woman and mother and I am giving no reason for any distrust.
What to do?